Tuesday, September 27, 2016

Election Ahead! - Don't worry! Get Peace!

The uncertainties related to the upcoming US election are somewhat unsettling.  The debate has not alleviated my concerns in the slightest.  As a result, I am finding it easy to lapse into worry about a matter that is very important and that does call for my engagement of it, yet the outcome of which is beyond my ultimate control.  As I consider the tension of this time, I am reminded of an earlier life situation when, on a faith mission, I found myself in a moment of great pressure.

In the midst of an outreach mission outside of the United States, our team leader and host stopped the vehicle turned to all of us on his team and said, "I don't know if you believed me in my correspondence to you, but we could be misunderstood, attacked and killed here.  If we are attacked, and I'm killed, don’t stay for my body. Escape and carry on with the mission. It's of more importance than me! But, if this is too difficult for any of you to handle, anyone who feels so inclined can stop here and now and head back to safety. But the mission will continue with those of us who are willing!"

The safety of non-engagement was very tempting!  While it might have preserved my temporary angst, it wouldn’t have abated my worry or solved the long-term problems we were seeking to address.  The Bible has advice for these types of situations that helps to dispel the paralysis of worry and fear:   Philippians 4:6 and 7 says, “…do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”  That verse gave me confidence to proceed in that time of potential danger in Christian service and it gives me peace now in the uncertainty of a national election. 

I have experienced God's peace in other times of uncertainty and it is available to all that will seek Him now as well. I will do my best to work for the the good and to pray about everything, including the election, knowing that God’s peace is available to me whatever the outcome.  After all, in the words of perhaps my favorite childhood church song, “He’s got the whole world in His hands - including the good ol' USA and its elections!” 




Thursday, September 8, 2016

A Man Called Sulemana - An African-American Story

A few days ago, I participated in a comment string that discussed the use of the term “African-American” by Americans who are considered “Black” in the United States.  Arriving at a descriptive term for the descendants of Africans on the American continent has been an ever-changing exercise, reflecting different the values and mores of the epochs in which the terms were used.  In my own lifetime, based on the cultural prevalence of the times in which I have lived, I have been called “colored”, “negro”, “Afro-American”, “Black”, “African-American” and of course the ubiquitous and shameful “N-word.”  There are other various terms that have been used, both positively and negatively, but these are the dominant ones. 

Why can’t we seem to arrive at a common place of satisfaction regarding what the descendants of enslaved Africans should be called?  History is helpful.  We must remember that slaves were often intentionally separated from others who shared tribal or regional connections and amalgamated with others of differing language and cultural ties.  This separation made efforts to secretly unite for insurrection and escape much more difficult and forged a “pan-West African melting pot” that blended many diverse people groups into a singular one untied in bondage.  This involuntary stripping of identity has left a void of self-awareness that lingers among Black Americans to varying degrees individually and corporately. 

For that reason, there is no consensus among American Blacks regarding what we should be called or how we should view ourselves in terms of specific identifiers in America.  Some are convinced that we are Americans first and foremost and should distance ourselves from attempts to identify us in any other way.  Others have a strong desire to connect with the roots of Africa from whence we come and believe those roots should be acknowledged in some way.  In my personal journey, my experiences have made me “proud to be an American” and have also endued me with a sense of cultural identity that allow me to “Say it loud – I’m Black and I’m Proud!”  Nevertheless, over the last few years I have been using the term “African-American” more frequently than others.  Some eschew that term, reasoning that there is a great deal of distance and experience between those of us who are descendants of enslaved Africans and Africans themselves.  While the reference “Black” is the one that is most comfortable to me and most emotionally familiar for me, I am not averse to using the “African-American” designation.  Perhaps the following personal account explains my comfort with the latest cultural descriptor. 

In the mid-1990’s, I was privileged to have the opportunity to travel to Ghana, West Africa.  It was an opportunity I eagerly seized, seeing it for the ministry possibilities and hoping to gain some perspective on my own heritage as the descendant of Africans enslaved many years before from this region. When I went to Ghana on a mission, I learned that slavery remains a major problem within West African culture itself that has never ceased to exist. The Ghanaian government itself acknowledged this fact in the 1990’s and voiced that there was a shared responsibility for slavery and opined that without a West African cultural predisposition to slave holding, the slave trade would not have been nearly as pervasive as it eventually became for the 300 plus years it thrived. Nevertheless, it is my opinion that joint responsibility does not mean that the descendants of those taken captive should not acknowledge their continental origins or that they should somehow distance themselves from their West African heritage. As the “Roots” saga demonstrated, the desire to acknowledge the ties that bind American Blacks to Africa have remained on both sides of the Atlantic, especially on the part of those who were taken and those related to them – something I also observed on my trip to Ghana.

The trip was filled with new experiences and very powerful events all along our journey.  None was more dramatic for me than when we visited a paramount chief – a chief of chiefs who was the leader of more people than the heads of state of the three nations in the region we were serving.  The American and Ghanaian missionaries who were leading us went out of their way to arrange for us to meet with this chief and made a special effort to mention I was a descendant of one of the “Taken Ones.” When the chief learned of my heritage, he made a gracious effort to reach out to me. After a time of pleasant exchanges and inquiries, he gave me a new name (the name of one who had been taken more than 100 years before), had a song played in my honor that had been written for that taken one, and for my benefit, showed me a tree that had been planted in memory of that same person!

The Northern Ghanaian name he bestowed upon me is the name of the one taken into slavery many years ago.  It is the name, “Sulemana.” I was stunned and moved to the point of speechlessness and numbness.  The experience of being re-named connected me with a common history (I was able to tread the very path where those sold into slavery had trod, even beholding the slave castle dungeons and the Door of no Return.) and forever influenced how I saw myself and my personal life’s journey. If I thought the saga had ended, there was another surprise awaiting me and my family once I arrived stateside.  As I shared my experience with Luz, she gasped when I mentioned the new name I had been given.  Her mouth and eyes were wide with surprise and she covered her face in disbelief.  When I asked her “What’s wrong Sweetheart?” she lowered her hands and responded almost in a trance-like state “Honey, your name means something in my language – it means, ‘Heritage Restored!’”


With that confluence of events, how could I not readily welcome a phrase that reignited a heritage that was exposed to me by circumstances totally beyond my control?  For me, the term African-American is a reminder of the strength and perseverance of an unknown ancestor, who survived and pressed on through a hopeless situation, passing on life to subsequent generations to the point that I was able to receive a “heritage restored” that honors that ancestor and all the others who survived and perished so long ago.  For that reason, I can say loud – I’m African-American and proud!

By the tree planted in Sulemana's memory. Taken in Northern Ghana.


The "Slave Rocks" used as a geographic marker and rallying point to transport slaves from Northern Ghana to ships on the Southern Coast.

Standing in the Dungeon of Cape Coast Castle where slaves were held just before embarking onto ships. The floors were not cemented - I am standing on petrified human waste!

One of the last views of Africa seen by slaves as they prepared to be put on small boats to be placed in the bottom of the slave ships. From Cape Coast Castle in Accra, Ghana, West Africa. 

A Memorial Marker in Memory of Enslaved Ancestors

Monday, August 29, 2016

The Myth of Popular Protest

As we drive along the thoroughfare of history, heroes are clearly seen for their heroism as we leave them behind in the rear view mirror. In the context of the times in which they lived, however, they were seldom viewed with universal magnanimity.

Colin Kaepernick's refusal to stand during the playing of the National Anthem at the beginning of football games is not only criticized, it is compared to the efforts of others and seen as inferior in purpose and appropriateness. Among the individuals mentioned is the iconic Reverend Doctor, Martin Luther King, Jr.

I am just old enough to remember how Dr. King was viewed in the context of the times in which he lived. During his lifetime, a number of people and institutions who now sing his praises and cite him as the standard of reason and acceptability, considered him a rabble rousing troublemaker who needed to be silenced. Their wish was granted and his demise was even celebrated at institutions I have since had the experience of attending. Even securing a holiday in his memory was a great point of national contention, with every shortcoming displayed during his life presented as "proof" that he was not "deserving" of a holiday in spite of the enormity of his work for good. Thankfully,  his work spoke for itself and a remembrance was established, yet that recognition was no easy undertaking.

I am also old enough to remember when Nelson Mandela was viewed with great suspicion by many mainstream Americans. Those same Americans predicted the proliferation of chaos and mayhem should Mandela be elevated to power.  The facts of history expose the ignorance of that perspective.

I am not claiming that Mt. Kaepernick is a King or Mandela. I am, however,  pointing out that in the context of their times, these now iconic heroes were not viewed as benign,  Santa-like Teddy Bears.  Their views were seen as dangerous and disruptive and cost them their freedom and one, his life.

No matter how reasoned or peaceful,  dissenting voices will be seen as a nuisance. It is part of the journey for those who dare to speak out and it is a hefty portion of the price of freedom...and it is not popular.

Saturday, August 27, 2016

The Courage to Sit - The Conviction to Stand

After an extended time of consideration, San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick came to a point of personal dissatisfaction and decided to remain seated during the playing of the National Anthem for these stated reasons: “‘I am not going to stand up to show pride in a flag for a country that oppresses black people and people of color,’ Kaepernick told NFL Media in an exclusive interview after the game. ‘To me, this is bigger than football and it would be selfish on my part to look the other way. There are bodies in the street and people getting paid leave and getting away with murder.’”

Initially, the “Army” in me stirred me to want to simply take Mr. Kaepernick to task for his actions, which from my background and culture as an Army Man, are generally considered disrespectful and outrageous.  Then, I thought it might be worth taking a deeper look into the matter. In general, taking a stand in protest– or a seat - for one’s principles is an admirable undertaking.  ESPN reported that while Kaepernick is ethnically bi-racial and adopted and raised by a white family, he has personally been stirred and touched by many contemporary racially charged events and has felt moved to do something.  ESPN stated further that Kaepernick is seeking to learn more and to grow in his understanding of the issues of race and culture that have captured his attention.

Taking the time to listen to the ESPN piece was helpful to me in trying to sort through Kaepernick’s thinking.  The life he has enjoyed and continues to enjoy because of the blessings of a compassionate family and strong personal aptitudes has placed him in a unique yet awkward position.  On the one hand, he has enjoyed the very best that the nation has to offer – compassionate people, moved to meet a need have embraced him, sealed him with their own identity and afforded him benefits that have propelled him and his talent to extremely lofty heights.  At the same time, I imagine there are days that he might wonder, “Why am I so fortunate?  Why have I made it?”  What if things hadn’t turned out right for me?” 

I seem to remember a biblical account of a man who was raised as a child of privilege and in his adulthood, realized that while he flourished, others who shared his ethnic identity suffered.  His first attempts to bring about justice for his oppressed people were not only ill-advised, they were disastrous – in fact, they were murderous.  Yet, after 40 years of reflection in the wilderness, this man discovered His God and matured to the point that he was then able, in senior years, to not only act wisely, but actually lead his people to a better place and God’s full purpose for their lives – and his.

Perhaps sitting down during the national anthem isn’t the wisest way for a conscientious NFL quarterback to initiate a discussion of the racial issues of the day. Nevertheless, it is a way for those close to him to begin to seek opportunities to advise and educate him –  and he has indicated he desires to be educated in such matters. Perhaps a great start would be helping him to look back at the contributions of Americans like the Tuskegee Airmen, or the trailblazers of the 555th Parachute Infantry Regiment, also known as the “Triple Nickel” or the women being highlighted in the contemporary movie “Hidden Figures” who provided critical brain power to launch NASA’s efforts to conquer space.  Perhaps knowledge of these types of figures who found ways to excel when even basic rights like using a public bathroom were denied, might help him to reevaluate his approach and focus on pathways to produce, rather than platforms to protest. 


Protests have their place and every American has a right to exercise their freedom to protest as they believe a situation warrants.  Nevertheless, as Mr. Kaepernick takes his seat for justice, those with experience and know-how might encourage him to consider some other paths to create awareness, and challenge him to take a stand for the future that remains ahead of us, seeking to lift up others to stand with him in the process.  If his heart is in the right place – and the information indicates that it probably is – this situation can lead to some powerful and productive actions towards solutions.  I know that I am a lifelong learner and I remain thankful to those who have walked alongside me as I continue to sort out the critical issues of life.  I hope the same for Mr. Kaepernick.

The Tuskegee Airmen

The Triple Nickel
NASA's Human Computer Project - The Women of "Hidden Figures"

Sam and Sam Jackson

Wednesday, August 17, 2016

Respuestas Reales para el debate Racial

Los conflictos raciales y culturales han sido parte de la experiencia americana hasta ya que gente primero habitaron el continente americano. Esas tensiones crecieron más intensa y costosa como la diversidad de intereses en los continentes creció y diferentes personas llegaron con sus propias perspectivas de lo que la vida idílica en las Américas debe ser. Millones de personas han muerto en la historia secular de esta vasta y gran tierra. Sigue muriendo gente en el día de hoy. La violencia continua que experimentamos es el feo residuo de las luchas pasadas y presentes deficiencias. Estas manchas empañar el sueño americano y dejar que aquellos de nosotros que permanecen vivas con una carga para entender y explicar cómo estas tragedias y convulsiones ocurren, incluso como el progreso y las mejoras son experimentados y logrado.  

John Perkins, un ministro cristiano dedicado al trabajo hacia esfuerzos restaurativa entre personas en conflicto racial, considera que un obstáculo importante a la curación y el progreso es el cambio perpetuo de la culpa y la culpabilidad.  Estoy de acuerdo. Si uno mira las noticias en la televisión o sigue los medios sociales puestos, no hay falta de presentaciones estadísticas "demostrar" de quién es la culpa de los problemas raciales. Cuando se utilizan a los efectos de la asignación de la culpa o de culpar, las estadísticas no son útiles ni las referencias anecdóticas de agravios cometidos de un pueblo a otro. Estoy seguro de que como estoy escribiendo estos pensamientos, alguien de una determinada raza ha ofendido alguien de otra raza. También estoy seguro de que, al mismo tiempo, otros de diversas razas están haciendo trabajo fenomenal para ayudar a muchos tipos diferentes de personas. Mientras tanto, muchos de nosotros estamos procesando duele reales percibidos por un surtido de personas - algunos como nosotros, otros no - como nos reflexionamos también acerca de haber sido ayudado y bendecido en nuestras historias personales, por una variedad de personas que pueden o no compartir nuestra misma identidad y antecedentes.  

Mi punto es sencillo. Hay mucha culpa para compartir y mucha culpa propia. Sin embargo, si nos permitimos ser paralizada por interminables discusiones de la culpabilidad y la culpa, nunca podremos hacer progresos en experimentar el arrepentimiento, el perdón, la restauración, la curación y el progreso. Para lograr estos resultados, que pasemos el sentimiento de culpa y debemos actuar.  Las acciones necesarias para hacer una diferencia son fáciles de entender, pero costoso y arriesgado. Estas medidas requieren un compromiso a largo plazo con los procesos y la plena participación en la vida de las personas que no tienen garantizado ganancias o resultados. Estas acciones están construidas sobre una base de amor y llame para aquellos que realmente deseen ver y lograr el cambio para el mejor perder su vida al servicio de los demás. Es una llamada para el cambio de estilo de vida, el desafío continuo y perpetuo. Implica acciones como el voluntariado, padres adoptivos, mentores, ayudando, sosteniendo, moldeo, viajar y permanecer despierto por la noche, el asesoramiento que se molesta cuando no le gusta ser molestado-ing, y un sinnúmero de otras acciones de la vida real que están a nuestro alcance para participar.

Estas acciones podrán invitar a las posibilidades de sufrimiento, decepción, duele, frustraciones y retrocesos. Ellos también se abrirá la puerta a las posibilidades de transformación, el alivio, la alegría, la satisfacción, la comodidad y las victorias.  En la realidad de esta mezcla de victorias y derrotas, quienes son verdaderamente valiente debe sacudir la niebla del letargo virtual. Permítanos elegir sino estimularnos unos a otros a participar en la vida real las oportunidades y aplicar nuestras energías a hacer diferencias reales en las vidas de la gente real. Ese chico sin papá que asiste a la iglesia cada semana - ayude a él. Usted es un padre con hijos adultos  – considere a ser padres adoptivos o la adopción. Usted está consternado por la miseria que ve en el vecindario que pasan cada día en el camino al trabajo - póngase en contacto con su oficina local de la ciudad y pregunte cómo puede ser parte de algo positivo para comenzar a hacer una diferencia de al menos una parte de esa comunidad. Comenza a buscar lo que se puede hacer en lugar de quejarse de lo que no está pasando. No podemos cambiar todo, pero podemos hacer una diferencia! Simplemente no podemos hacerlo sin ningún esfuerzo o de forma gratuita.


Moving Beyond Blame and Guilt - Action Rather Than Arguments

Moving Beyond Blame and Guilt – Action Rather Than Arguments

Racial and cultural conflicts have been a part of the American experience since people first inhabited the American continents.  Those tensions grew more intense and costly as the diversity of interests in the continents grew and different people arrived with their own perspectives of what an idyllic life in the Americas should be.  Millions have died in the centuries long history of this vast and great land.  People continue to die today.  The continued deaths and violence we experience are the ugly residue of past struggles and present short-comings.  These blemishes tarnish the American dream and leave those of us who remain alive with a burden to understand and explain just how these tragedies and upheavals occur, even as progress and improvements are experienced and achieved. 

John Perkins, a Christian minister devoted to working towards restorative efforts between people in racial conflict, believes that a major obstacle to healing and progress is the perpetual exchange of blame and guilt.  I concur.  Whether one watches television news or follows social media posts, there is no lack of statistical presentations “proving” who’s to blame for racial problems or other perceived issues in the nation, and who should feel guilty about them.  When used for the purposes of assigning guilt or placing blame, the statistics are not helpful nor are the anecdotal references to wrongs committed of one people towards another.  I am confident that as I am writing these thoughts, someone of a particular race has wronged someone else of another race.  I am also certain that at the same time, others of various races are doing phenomenal work to help many different types of people. All the while, many of us are processing real hurts levied by an assortment of people – some like us, some not - as we also reflect upon having been helped and blessed in our personal histories by a variety of people who may or may not share our same background and identity. 

My point is straightforward.  There is plenty of blame to share and lots of guilt to own.  However, if we allow ourselves to be paralyzed by endless discussions of guilt and blame, we will never make progress in experiencing repentance, forgiveness, restoration, healing and then progress.  To achieve these outcomes, we move past guilt and blame and we must act.  The actions necessary to make a difference are easy to understand, but costly and risky.  These actions require long-term commitments to processes and full-fledged involvement in the lives of people that have no guaranteed pay-offs or results.  These actions are built upon a foundation of love and call for those who really desire to see and bring about change for the better to lose their lives in the service of others.  It is a call to lifestyle change, continual challenge, and perpetual inconvenience.  It involves actions like volunteering, foster parenting, adopting, mentoring, Big Brother and Big Sister-ing, helping, holding, molding, traveling, staying awake for late night counseling, being bothered when you don’t feel like being bothered-ing, and countless other real-life actions that are within our grasp to engage.

That kid with no dad that you see each week in church – mentor him.  You’re an empty-nester with time and money on your hands and miss the living sounds of children on your floors – consider foster parenting or adoption.  You are appalled by the trouble you see in the neighborhood you pass by each day on the way to work and wish those people would “get it together” – contact your local city office and ask how you might be part of something positive to begin to make a difference for at least a part of that community.  You wonder why those churches “aren’t doing anything” about the problems in the community – become part of one of those crazy new churches who are trying to make inroads in the hard places, but need people with wisdom, resources and expertise to help them.  Begin to seek out what can be done rather than complain about what isn’t getting done. 

These actions will invite possibilities for suffering, disappointment, hurts, frustrations and setbacks.  They will also open the door for possibilities of transformation, relief, joy, satisfaction, comfort and victories.  In the reality of this mixture of victories and losses, those who are truly courageous must shake off the fog of virtual lethargy.  Let us rather choose to encourage each other to engage in real life opportunities and to apply our energies to making real differences in the lives of real people.  We cannot change everything, but we can make a difference!  We just can’t do it with no effort or for free.